Couples Therapy
Dr. DeFlumere has advanced training in the Gottman Method, one of the gold-standard therapeutic models of supporting couples. This is an evidence-based way for you to help make sense of each other, your relationship, and develop practical, evidence-based skills to increase your connection and communication. Her goal is to help your relationship be as meaningful, connected, and loving as possible, and she is so proud of the couples work she gets to do.
Dr. DeFlumere particularly enjoys working with couples adjusting to parenthood, with LGBTQ+ relationships, and with neurodiverse relationships.
Couples Therapy Fees
Online Therapy
90-minutes Couples Therapy with Clinical Director
€200
Frequently asked questions
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Is there a waiting list?
At the moment, there is a waiting list for couples therapy. Please reach out to our admin team to get an estimate of the current waiting time.
Can I claim therapy on my Private Health Insurance?
As Dr. DeFlumere is a Chartered Psychologist with the Psychological Society of Ireland, her fees are generally claimable with your private health insurance.
Receipts are provided for health insurance claims and tax-relief claims.
Receipts are provided for health insurance claims and tax-relief claims.
Are in-clinic sessions possible?
All couples therapy sessions are online, typically in held in the evening.
What is the Gottman Method?
The Gottman Method of Couple Therapy is based on Dr John Gottman’s research that began in the 1970’s and continues to this day. The research has focussed on what makes relationships succeed or fail. From this research, Drs. John and Julie Gottman have created a method oftherapy that emphasises a ‘nuts-and-bolts’ approach to improving clients’ relationships.
This method is designed to help teach specific tools to deepen friendship and intimacy in your relationship. To help you productively manage conflicts, you will be given methods to manage ‘resolvable problems’ and dialogue about ‘gridlocked’ (or perpetual) issues. We will also work together to help you appreciate your relationship’s strengths and to gently navigate through its vulnerabilities.
This method is designed to help teach specific tools to deepen friendship and intimacy in your relationship. To help you productively manage conflicts, you will be given methods to manage ‘resolvable problems’ and dialogue about ‘gridlocked’ (or perpetual) issues. We will also work together to help you appreciate your relationship’s strengths and to gently navigate through its vulnerabilities.